Blog 31

Today on my blog, I am going to write about my thinking about the balance of society in Korea. In Korea, boys in my age are divided into two different groups: boys who have a girl friend and who do not. The boys in the group who do not have a girlfriend are arguing why they do not have a girlfriend. They excuse and console themselves by they do not need a girlfriend and they are only enjoying the free time. However, the worse thing is some of the people who have a girlfriend are talking to their girlfriend with oily voice in front of the people who do not have a girlfriend. So, people who do not have a girlfriend are blaming the people who have a girlfriend and once again crying about not having a girlfriend. Then, they are blaming their parents by not giving them the abilities to get the girlfriend and arguing that our society is unfair. However, I think it is fair enough. The fairness comes from the balancing of existence of people who have a girlfriend and people who do not. People who have a girlfriend are boasting themselves by having a girlfriend to people who do not. Then, people who do not have a girlfriend are blaming people who have a girlfriend and say they are jerks. Although these are totally different situations, by existence of these two situations, it balances our society. I told to someone about this, and he said “We don’t need this kind of balance.” As you think, he does not have a girlfriend. Even though I do not have a girlfriend, I am just writing about this because I have to recognize my situation and try hard to join the group who has a girlfriend.